SELFLESSNESS

SELFLESSNESS

True divine love requires a perfection in selflessness as selfishness
destroys any relationship and love

One day very long before achieving oneness with God and before true love
even starts to flow - all humans will learn true divine selflessness. Today
may be just the right day to start this essential lesson.

Learning selflessness is very easy. Can be learned even by babies because
most animals master it already in extreme perfection - such as ants, honey
bees, and most other animals. Humans are some of the very last species still
to learn selflessness in all creation !!! The benefits of true selflessness
are truly infinite - even in a mathematical or physical sense.

True love always starts flowing when developing and practicing selflessness
True divine selflessness results in an instant end of all difference between
poor and rich, weak and mighty, old and young, .. True divine selflessness
creates eternal and infinite benefits for all involved !

The steps to learn are very simple, however require strict application over
an very extended period of time far beyond one lifetime to be your true and
absolute nature. However if you start today - in a few weeks or month you
may already feel and realize the first true benefits in your inner and outer
life as well.

Easy steps to learn and apply true selflessness in your life
There is but one true way to learn, practice and prove divine selflessness -
here the simple steps for your own practice to learn selflessness in all
situations of your life:

always focus only on the wellbeing of all others

when family members want to eat - always let ALL others first select their
most preferred food - then take whatever is left for you

always give the full plate to all others first and then take whatever they
leave you - if nothing is left - refill the plate and offer it again to your
family members until all are fully happy and full first

only focus on the wellbeing of your partner in all you ever do - never
occupy your mind with your own needs or wishes

when you make gifts to others - always give in such abundance to allow them
to always first share in abundance with their family and friends or poor
ones as well

when you receive a gift always offer it to your family and friends to share
and take for you whatever is left

when you have a family or are in a group and decide what to do - always let
OTHERS chose their most preferred activity and support them in fully
enjoying what they all love to do

when you have a delicious food - always offer it to others and ask them if
they would love to have some - if they eat all - get more for them until all
are happy and take whatever is left for you - if nothing is left - be happy
with nothing and feed your heart with the happiness you have created in
OTHERS - look at their happy smile and be happy !

when you have an amount of money after paying all the really basic needs -
share with those who have nothing or far less and take for you whatever is
left after sharing.

when you want to be more happy - focus more on creating happiness in others
and you receive all missed happiness in your life by looking and enjoying a
happy surrounding

when you realize there are many needs and limited resources - always fulfill
the needs of all others first

always clean up your own life and surrender a fully healed body, heart, mind
and soul to others when entering a relationship

when having a selection of things to share - always offer the most valuable,
the best and nicest or most delicious things to others

when asking for salary - always ask for a honest salary - never for a
precise amount. Always allow ALL others in same situations or positions to
have equal or greater salary than you - never less than you. Leave the
assessment of YOUR qualification to others when assessing your salary.

when receiving surprising visitors always offer your meal to them first and
assure you have enough for all - make sure you always have sufficient
quantity of good quality food available to share with anyone visiting you.
be always ready to share any amount of time needed by others whenever they
need

your children, your partner, your entire family, relatives, neighborhood,
village, country and planet - finally all creation - always should be first
and you last ! This results in dropping any clan- or family-thinking or
patriotism as a reflection of minor or hidden forms of selfishness.

never force others to eat what you prepare - but prepare the food they all
love - be ready to prepare for each one a separate meal made to order !

when you have employees - always think of the overall wellbeing of all your
employees first

when you have a housemaid or helper in your home - always treat them like
your older brother or sister - with love and dignity, like any other beloved
family member.

always afford the very best for all others

when several task need to be done - always select the dirtiest, most
dangerous or hardest job for yourself first - leaving all the better jobs to
all others

always strive for perfection in all you do - offering the best possible work
and services to as many as needed

always be happy with your life and with whatever you are offered by others -

whenever you are sure to give your very best possible you are receiving
exactly what ever you need for your greatest possible spiritual benefit.
to proof selflessness, always be ready to physically and/or spiritually bow
to the feet of all creation - here on earth and beyond - eternally
the happiness of all others including God's happiness should be your true
and only goal in all action or decisions

such simple steps are the rules to turn any selfishness into true divine
selflessness and easy to follow by all - there is no need to ever get into
debts for others - but sometimes a need to work a little more to have more
to give or share or to have better quality of love and services to share
with all creation !

If however you practice selflessness only for the infinite and eternal
benefits - then you are practicing true advanced selfishness rather than
true loving divine selflessness. When you have any doubt about what to do in
a particular situation or how to act - then always think of what you love to
receive as treatment or service in that particular situation. Always do with
love and full devotion what you do

What are the benefits of true eternal selflessness ?
When you have loved all, shared with all, died for all, fed all, made all
happy, helped all to grow strong and find into eternal and absolute freedom,
.. for thousands and more years, then one day billions may but love you with
all their love - billions of different ways of loving you - eternally !

Only true Love can make everyone truly happy and you in return very happy
too and

Happiness is Health